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[crank]

I didnt even ask, i just said what type of girl i was looking for, and 3 moth later i meet her!
I didnt know right away it was her, but later i just remebered that "Damn, it was her i described"
A few weeks later on and i feel in love big time..  now a few problems arrieved and maybe i attracted them,
but for the most part i got out of balance with myself and curcomstances was a bit tricky.. now we havent
talked for a long time, no contact but i miss her and we parted with alot of question marks..
I dont feel obessed with girl, i just love her from the core of my heart in a calming way i never felt before

what i would like to know is, i have asked, been specific and thought about how i like our future to turn out and wrote it all down. How i like to grow with her and how she can grow with me (hopefully old and grey    I do even think about her regular days, but i feel i have to detach also! Its not healthy thiking about her all the time. And detaching her from my mind seems like a might push her away in the LOA. Ofcourse there is fears some days to.. that got me all paranoid thinking im attracting the negative too.. in other words, do i haft to ask for my "future" every day and think about it, ill go crazy if i do

[Galia]

Crank,

you already have all the answers as you attracted her already consciously... Just stay happy, stay positive and relaxed and visualize your future without worries...

I understand what you feel because I also have my down days and feel the same panic of attracting worse...but then I start changing my thoughts and turning them positive because this is the reality, if I let them be whatever they want, I'm finished - the bad will come and after it's difficult to get out.

So take action immediately!!

[crank]

I understand your point of view Galia. No matter what the LOA is active, but in what way should i
think about the girl, becouse thinking that everything is allright and i allready have it.. makes me crazy after
i while cause when i slip into negative, i feel i haft to compansate for it with positive thoughts. Like
"dont think that, dont think that.. ill attract it,..Damn just thought of it"

The way i do it now is that i have a mental picture of our home, and our perfect day together that will
come in the future. And when i think negative, i lay down and think about the day, and i makes me fine again.
Is that enough? or should i constantly think positive in the presence?

[Galia]

hi...

you should try staying positive all the time and be detached on the outcome.... is all I can say.... if you have difficulties with a specific person, then try doing a general search for a soulmate - this will help you avoiding doubts and bad feelings related to your past experience with her...

[crank]

hi...

you should try staying positive all the time and be detached on the outcome.... is all I can say.... if you have difficulties with a specific person, then try doing a general search for a soulmate - this will help you avoiding doubts and bad feelings related to your past experience with her...

Thats what i mean. The detachment. Does that mean not caring? or not thinking about it?
Thinking about it in a positive maner attracts it, wanting it but not caring if it comes true or not, is that LOA?
Im just asking becouse im not so well informed on LOA.
I do feel as i choose my destiny, and i dont feel that i haft to have it, but im willing to open up as much as i can
and stop being cynical to get there.

[Galia]

Crank, here is a small part of my article on the blog about attracting an ex back....this is the "detachement" part :

    * Let it go. Become detached of the outcome. This is the turning point in your actions. The work you did until that moment will manifest only when there’re “zero limits” or “zero resistance”. That means that with the visualizations and affirmations and the forgiveness you achieved a state where “you and your ex” are together, you don’t doubt, you just feel you are together. Being together became natural for you, there’re no more doubts, no more questioning if it will work or not. You know it, that’s all.

Let it go doesn’t mean that you stop working on your purpose; it’s just that you are happy no matter what.  You are responsible for your own healing and growing just like your ex is for his/hers.  You feel happy no matter what and those are the vibes you send to the Universe.

If you don’t let it go, if you don’t detach from the outcome, you are sending to the Universe vibes of “waiting” and you won’t ever send a vibration of “having”  so it will stay the way it is…


here is the link: http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/how-to-get-your-ex-girlfriend-boyfriend-back/

[crank]

I think i get it now.
To get stuck in a mindset of wanting, you will get more "wanting" and less getting.
So i should feel the feelings of when i got it, and walk around with those, have the visual image in my head
but just relax and have faith the universe will and let it happend.
So this is how i will do, i feel a connection to her even if i dont try, but i haft to sométimes.. i should stop visualising
on the means of being with her, and have the picture of the endresults instead and walk around with the nice
feelings it gives me.

[Chaz]

Be positive and visualize the future (or the outcome) that you want. Remember, both positive and negative energy attracts. If you mix both, the result will be mixture and not the way you honestly want it to be. If you always slip into negative, you must take control your mind. Even let go requires you to have control of your thoughts and feelings. The best way to achieve this is practice meditation.