Some things are manifesting so easily...

[Kas]

Hi Everyone,

I would like to get your opinion on manifesting.  I am in the process of attracting a specific guy who I dated for a few weeks because I believe I deserve a fair chance (which I didn't get) and I truly believe he is my soulmate.  He matches every single quality on my soulmate list.  So while that is going on, I'm keeping myself occupied with my friends and school work to detach. 

My question to you is, why is it so easy to manifest some things but not others?  Below are some examples:

• I wanted to know who some girl I kind of know was dating, I tried to find his name but couldn't, so I moved on to doing something else.  A day or two later, she tweeted his name saying, "out with XYZ".  So I got what I wanted.
• Then I wanted to see what that guy looked like.  Again I searched a little, didn't find anything, so moved on to doing something else and today I came across his picture when I wasn't even looking for it.
• On Thursday evening I just thought that my friend will email me regarding a job I sent her and Friday morning there was an email from my friend about that job.
• As soon as I get to the bus stop, I expect the bus to come right away.  Most of the time it comes, but when it doesn't, my manager ends up coming later than I, so it looks like I got to work on time!

I absolutely love love love the law of attraction and I know that since I am manifesting all these things and much more, it's only a matter of time before my soulmate will call me to rekindle our relationship.  But do you think it's because I am detached from all of these things - where I don't even care if I find out the information that is why I am manifesting all of these things so quickly?

[Mr Brightside]

I think your doing great, looks like you dont need anyone to tell you how to work LOA. I think, my opinion here, that there are 2 reasons why some things come faster than others.

1) The larger things you want in life are harder to detach from, so while you still think you dont care about the outcome, a part of you does. This slows the process down.

2) Some things are just much harder for the universe to deliver at the same speed. If i wanted a phone call it would be much easier than getting a new car. There has to be some sort of path to your goal, and some things require many steps along the way before the universe can bring them to us. 

That being said i think what is important to understand is LOA works, but some people get frustrated when larger things dont come as easy. You noticed how these small things came quick, so if that worked then you know that the larger things are also coming your way. In their perfect time.

[beautifulmesss12sc]

there are alot of us here who have attracted a call or txt with an ex .. then we reattached and they got silent again .. letting go is def the key .. its jst easier said than done

[Kas]

You are right Stefzilla.  It seems like I say I don't care but I am still a little attached when it comes to my soulmate.  Need to let that little bit of attachment go.  With the other stuff, I just know like I know like I know that it's going to happen and even if it doesn't, I don't really care.  My only thing with this detaching part of LOA is that I am starting to NOT miss him as much.  I kind of miss the fact that I'm not missing him.

[Mr Brightside]

Kas i know what you mean. For me its hard to get to the point of saying I am ok either way, because so much of myself wants it to happen. Every time i have the oportunity to move on , i feel almost guilty, like i shouldnt be doing this. But what i found is that you are just letting things happen the way they should, i love that person and i want them to be with me and if the universe/God thinks we are suppose to be together then it WILL happen.

Let go and let God , so simple yet it helped me so much

[beautifulmesss12sc]

Im feeling a bit guilty  too abt letting go.. i am talking to another man right now he seems nicce ... it hasnt gotten intimate yet .. and im not ready for it too .. what im afraid of is if things dont click with this other guy i will start missing ex even more

thinking i will never move on comparing everyone to him ... so im wondering if im dating too soon? its been 5 months , i want to be fair to this other person,

[Mr Brightside]

You should do what you feel is right. Dont get into something if you are not ready, just because there is a offer. Dont use one person to get you away from the feelings you have. I have done it before and it was terrible. Not only did i feel bad about myself, but that relationship didnt last because i knew in my heart i didnt love that person like i did my ex. So i was back to squre 1 , but with added stress and issues.

When the right person comes along you will know , and nothing will make you think twice, not you ex or anyone else. You will just do it.

[57angel]

Some things are so easy to manifest when we detached ourselves of the negative feelings, beliefs and thoughts on what we ask for. Yes, it is easier said than done Hmmmm even when we no longer have negative feelings associated with what we desire, but if the Universe knows that we are not ready yet to get what we desire, there will be time delays to better prepare us in all ways