RELEASING AND ALLOWING - WHY SOME GET IT FASTER

[Peter Brink]

Hello all you good people

So on my journey and call to action, I have come up with some interesting thoughts about why the LOA may work faster for some and slower for others.

I think it is because some people are "better" at allowing it to happen for them. Some people might need a little more practice at allowing.

We are all different, individual people with our own backgrounds, fears, worries and desires. We have all been moulded by our upbringing and our thoughts and the circumstances of our lives.

Now I think that identifying the barriers to the LOA working for you is as important as understanding the LOA itself. The more we eliminate the barriers while focusing our positive energy the easier our desires will come to us.

Take for example my business, I am so used to living on the financial edge, that is all my frame of reference is. So I need to focus on what I desire for the business, good clients, high paying jobs, financial security and wealth.

Now all I have been thinking for a long while has been "why are we not converting" "whats wrong with my pricing" "clients dont like my products" "how am I going to pay my bills" and my latest favourite "the economy has killed us"

The sooner I release those barriers the sooner I allow my desires to manifest.

I do that by reversing my negative thoughts and worries. That means bringing them out into the open, releasing them and then focussing on my positive desires. And taking some action!!

There are two main methods I have found, EFT (emotional freedom technique) and The Sedona Method. I am doing both. I am loving EFT right now

Now my concern was that I am now spending too much time and effort on the negative stuff and not enough on the positive stuff. That could be true, but I look at it with a positive spin, I am laying down the foundation for all me awesomeness to manifest. When it does, I am free and clear to enjoy it.

Each time I release a barrier, I feel even better and its more easier to send pure thoughts without distraction on my desires. The cleaner and more pure the thought and the less distraction, the better and quicker the result.

Now, I have realised that through the course of my life I have accumulated an impressive array of barriers which I am systematically and methodically releasing, with great results, my thoughts are clearer and more focussed, and have fewer distractions.

I am also in the privelaged position of being able to learn more and more about myself. That self awareness and self knowledge is indeed a gift from the universe that I can use to live my best life.

It is important though, not to become totally absorbed in the barriers, See them, acknowledge them and then let them go, quickly, and just as quickly get back to the prize.

Others may not have many barriers or no barriers at all to their specific desires, so they are able to allow far more easily.

So dont become despondent if you read about others massive success stories, use them as motivation and keep your eyes on the prize.

Something else....

The entire thing about the law of attraction is ME. I am attracting what I want for MY life. So who am I? Why am I worthwhile and deserving?

So in my Vision Book, I devoted a page to all my positive aspects, why I am deserving, why I am a great person. It helps me to believe more in myself, appreciate myself and love myself more. The greater my self love and self acceptance, the more positive my thoughts. This is possibly one of the biggest foundations of allowing.

Ask yourself, are you ready to be loved if you lack self love? Are you ready to be blessed if you dont think you are worth it?

Start with yourself, love yourself some more every day!!!

PS, these thoughts, comments and statements are partly mine and partly others. I express them partly to help myself, share them with others and request insight and advice. These statements have not been evaluated by the FDA, KGB, CIA, FBI, NSA, The EU or Greenpeace hahahahahahaha

Love and Light to y'all

[Galia]

Hi.

I really appreciate your posts everytime i read them! You got the things so very right here again!   

I realized the same as you and I do as well the EFT...quite often.

If you have time, write your stuff as articles and publish them in our blog...


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Have an amazing day! 

[Galia]

Me again

I wanted to ask you to explain in details how do you practice Sedona method? I found on internet the questions that we are supposed to ask ourselves but how with simple questions you can succeed in quit smoking for exemple?

Give more details if you have time to write here 

Thanks!

[Peter Brink]

Hey Galina

I have just started EFT, but I have made some minor adjustments, and am still not 100% sure on the results. I still feel some serious anxiety at times.

What I do with EFT is read the manual to make 100% sure I am following it correctly.

I prepared some prompt cards, as in the manual they explain how to unpack each of the issues you feel.

I changed the wording of the affirmation based on my thinking that I want to define the feeling and not let it define me, so my affirmation is as follows:

Even though I FEEL anxiety about XXXXX, I completely and deeply love and accept myself.

I then added something else, to reinforce that I am letting it go, sort of doubling up, the phrase I added is:

With this process I completely and permanently release the feeling of anxiety about xxxxxx

So my affirmation in total in the "Setup" phase is as follows:

"Even though I FEEL anxiety about XXXXX, I completely and deeply love and accept myself.
With this process I completely and permanently release the feeling of anxiety about xxxxxx"

I feel that using the additional phrase increases my ability to release the emotion while I am also doing the tapping.

As far as the Sedona Method goes, I have not yet completed the audio tapes and I follow a basic process exactly as in the limited reading I have done.

When I feel an unwanted feeling, I just go through the process of the three questions:

Do I want or need this emotion?
Could I let it go?
When?

I always answer No, Yes, NOW

Then I say to myself, its gone.

What I do then I think is very important, I focus on my vision board and get that positive emotion going.

As far as stopping smoking, I have given that some thought, as I am a smoker. If I had to use it for smoking, I would use exactly the same questions:

Do I need or want to have this cigarette?
Could I go without this one?
Then I put it down and release the desire to smoke this cigarette

I would do this every time I wanted to have a smoke, probably using EFT at the same time as well.

I think the success is determined by how much you want to stop smoking, of course I think it takes a commitment to using the questions every time you want to have a cigarette.

Thats what I think, what do you think?

P

[Andrew Wilkie]

Peter,

For EFT are you expecting your results to happen in a certain way?  That's pretty much like setting a goal condition. This is what I want and this is the only way I can get it.

Are you taking your emotional intensity score before tapping? If you are, then you should notice a decrease in your emotional intensity with some rounds of tapping.

If you change your emotion or focus as you tap. Then each round you'll be tapping on something different. You'll still being getting results as EFT always works. Yet, it might take a little more time to get the results that you think you want or expect.

Also emotions and events can have many sides or aspects to them. So you'll clear one and then up comes another side to your problem.  Most problems have a few keys big ones, pull them or dilute the lot and you're all set.

With EFT, set-up phrases etc. There is nothing set in stone. Go with what comes up for you.  Once you do, as you are doing. You'll find some real power busters that work for you.


Smoking - Most smokers really need very compelling WHYs and reasons to give up. For most smokers, it would be nice to give up, but there is the problem. They feel they are giving up something and getting nothing in return.

Smoking can have many pieces to it. Why do you smoke, why did you start, what does smoking give you, which you think you can't get by any other means?  What's the emotional trigger that causes you to reach for a cigarette?

[Peter Brink]

Hi Andrew

Glad to hear from you.

Ya, Im still learning about EFT and have been using it for two days only. Im not using it to stop smoking at all, Im using it to eliminate barriers for the LOA.

As I am still learning, I suppose I might be setting a goal condition, Im not sure. My goal is to release unwanted emotions, so that they dont take up my conciousness and I can move forward and spend more time on the good stuff and attracting my desires.

I have extreme anxiety about an "ex" I am trying to unload, I am doing the EFT aiming at a few aspects, loss, fear, rejection, jealousy and anxiety. I do well for a while and then the anxiety comes back with a vengance and the "ex" seems to dominate my thoughts. This is getting me down a bit but I am persevering.

What I want and expect are simply to be free from the thoughts and the anxiety so that I dont allow my mind to be consumed by one single part of my life and that is not what I want!!

Any help or advice would really be appreciated!!!!

Looking forward to hearing from you Andrew

[Andrew Wilkie]

Peter,

At least you're doing something and that is massive!  EFT works amazingly well for me and many others when applying it to LOA.

Focus on the end result -

I can move forward and spend more time on the good stuff and attracting my desires.

You can easily EFT about your negative thoughts taking up space and time.

Even though my negative thoughts are taking up much of my time and I don't know why

You clearly know what you don't want. What do you want instead. As you think about what you want and say it to yourself, you'll go yes, but or something similar. They are things you can tap on with EFT.