Author Topic: Reality keeps striking back (Read 295 times)

luvpedobera · « **on:** April 12, 2011, 06:31:37 PM »

Hey guys,
I have a little problem...
it's best I'll give an example and you could understand what is it...
yesterday I wanted a friend to do something which I didn't wanna ask because I'd be so embressed

so I tried to manifest it to happen, but a second after I try to imagine it and everything, she talks about something else and the situation isn't working out for me.
What can I do when I try to manifest something that after a second reality shows me it's not going to change the way I want it... I know I should be patient but each time it happens it FORCES me to start think it's not gonna work and stuff

Please help me, it's very important.
Thanks!

stevenvenus · « **Reply #1 on:** April 13, 2011, 02:46:15 AM »

ok, one- you only have control over your outcome. to manifest someone else to do something is partially controlling there outcome. in order for you to control there outcome they have to be in the same mindset and frequency of that outcome. The best way to control another persons outcome is to comunicate, before you comunicate to them what it is you want, meditate on the outcome and visualize them saying yes to whatever you want. the universe will give you the right words to say to get a yes answer. always think win/win
also embarrasment of asking the friend what you want them to do is fear of the answer. you have to take action
use this as a metaphor.
a man wants a girl friend so he goes outside and sees a bunch of hot females; but he is to afraid aproach them to ask them out. what are his chances of getting a girlfriend- very slim sence the girl would have to approach him first, then she would see his fear in talking to her because he is stumbling on his words, shows weakness so she moves to the next guy

Era · « **Reply #2 on:** April 13, 2011, 10:02:32 PM »

Hi there!

Law of attraction needs an action, you have to go and have the courage to ask your friend of what would you like him/her to do for you, then focus on visualizing what will be his/her answer to your favor and I strongly suggest that you should be wise in choosing your thoughts, emotions, and actions. For harsh decisions and negative feelings will surely backfire at you. Positive emotions and well-chosen actions on the other hand, are greatly beneficial. Like I said, everything you do and think will reflect back to you, so positive emotions and well-chosen actions, again, will reflect back to you at the same degree – or higher.
http://attractingabundancehq.com/life-and-all-its-glory/doing-things-differently/