Question about LOA

[lola]

They say everything hat happens to us, we are responsible for it.

So how about people who get killed in widespread terrorist attacks when they were just getting on with their lives?
babies that fall sick and die?
people who get blindsided and cheated by their lovers?

How are they responsible? Aren't somethings completely outside our control?

[expandingbeings.com]

Nothing is out of your control, but most people  have no idea that they have control to begin with.  They are living their lives by default.

Living by default means they are not giving attention to what they want, but instead just noticing what is going on around them. Thus they fall victum to what others are focusing on and creating. And most other people are also just living by default so the cycle goes on and on.

The worse it gets the worse it gets in this case. If someone believes they have no power and are victums to what goes on around them then they will be in that wrong place at a wrong time.

Many though have more positive outcomes. They get a feeling not to go to work on a day something bad happens, or they just miss a car accident. These would be positive examples of someone creating their lives.

[vageesha]

i need soo much help i did everyhting visulizing, writting, saying out loud, hearing day dreaming and so much more there must be something im doing wrng i just want to simply attract a message on facebook from my ex bf please help me right now i have put the wish out and i am doing my best to feel good and think positive thoughts what should i do? i even visulized.

[Galina Shibileva]

Vageesha,

why you want to attract a message from your ex? What will that change???