Newbie questions

[cs5402]

Hi, I've recently come across the Law of Attraction, and regardless of the amount of scientific evidence there is, it seems entirely possible to me so I decided to try and start practicing it along with meditation(also new to me). I have some questions though. The first question I have is about the extent to which you can put your goals, I have very very high hopes and dreams for myself, they are possible but in what amount of time is my question. Am I allowed to set an age for completion? Another problem I have is doubt, I'm not sure how I'm supposed to rid of the doubt completely. The last thing right now is whether I'm supposed to imagine that I have already achieved what I want or am I supposed to reassure myself that I will achieve it no matter what? Thanks, it's great to find a forum to discuss this on, its refreshing to talk to people who are open to "radical" ideas. 

[Era]

When we are worried about something, it actually does not change anything. It does not make things better but rather could make things worse. It is because worry is a negative emotion and we all know that negativity is never beneficial.

So what should you do instead?

If you can’t help but worry, that is where EFT comes in. This is by far one of the easiest and safest ways to get rid of any negative emotion. http://attractingabundancehq.com/emotional-freedom-technique/

When you are successful, your worries will be gone and you can focus on things that make you feel good. You get what you put out to the universe, in other words, what you give your attention and energy to, you get in return.

Make yourself immune to negative thoughts by making parrying negative thoughts a habit. The negative thoughts are your opponent and you are the Judo expert who adeptly throws them away as they go near you. Perfect practice makes perfect.

[cs5402]

Thanks, I was also wondering, when it comes to relationships, I've seen a lot of threads on ex's getting back but what about people who you are acquainted with? If you succeed or when you succeed, are you technically "controlling" their mind? This is one thing I really find confusing

[cs5402]

Ok, so I found all these mentions of detachment and I looked through the other threads on the forum, I get the point. My question, which is probably my most urgent question is, if we are to detach, how many times should we "send" our desires to the universe? Should we just do it once and wait? I was also considering making a "vision box", would I send whatever is in there out just once, then leave it? I've been combining meditation and affirmations and visualizations for 40-50 minutes a day, but after seeing the detachment, I get the feeling that this is a bit much. So how many times do we send it out? How often do we affirm or visualize? Does it vary for how big the goal is? Please answer, I'd like to get on the right track as soon as possible

[crazysoul]

Ok, so I found all these mentions of detachment and I looked through the other threads on the forum, I get the point. My question, which is probably my most urgent question is, if we are to detach, how many times should we "send" our desires to the universe? Should we just do it once and wait? I was also considering making a "vision box", would I send whatever is in there out just once, then leave it? I've been combining meditation and affirmations and visualizations for 40-50 minutes a day, but after seeing the detachment, I get the feeling that this is a bit much. So how many times do we send it out? How often do we affirm or visualize? Does it vary for how big the goal is? Please answer, I'd like to get on the right track as soon as possible

hey there
hope i can help you....

send you wish only once, i use a magical creation box for this at the moment, guess you mean the same with vision box right?
you can also just think about your intent, but i feel better when i state my wish and put it into the box and leave it close, thats the letting go for me.
i try to think about that contain in the box not anymore- completely let go of the outcome and the best "forget" about your wish, it has been sent, nothing more to do for now.
i do not much visiualize, just once in the evening, looking at my vision board and try to feel that happy feeling when the thing are already manifested in my world. just that feeling, not about my wish etc anymore.
during the day, all i do is, keeping my mind in a happy mindstate, by thinking of things i am gratful for and some short affirmations (look at my signature).

hope that helps- but for your question.... send your wish only once and then forget about it, completely give it to the universe, just visualize that happiness the outcome will bring you and be assured to receive it!!!!
and- it doesnt make a difference how big or small your wish is.

[Mariposa, (KnJ)]

It is only necessary to put your request out into the Universe one time.  You wouldn't go to a restaurant and order the same meal over and over again would you?  You would place your order once and know like you know like you know that it will manifest!! 

When putting your request it is best to pick a method either the "creation Box" or the "vision board" or "the intention group" and put your request out there. 

In our intention group it is wonderful because it isn't just YOUR energy being put out there toward your request , it is EVERYONE in the group's energy also being lent to your request ASSURING it's MANIFESTATION! 

Isn't that INCREDIBLE?!!!  It's really amazing the feeling people get from experiencing that combined energy ALL DAY LONG and sometimes it last for days and even weeks. 

[cs5402]

wow thanks!, so an intention group is basically many peoples desires or intents in one place? When you send it out once, how should you do it? Should I do it in the same way I would meditate or deeply visualize it without relaxing myself or doing anything? Another thing, when manifesting wealth or money, you have material things you want to get with that money, so is it worth putting those material things out as well? Or just in the box? Because if you are already manifesting that wealth, then won't you just be able to use that wealth to get those material things?