Author Topic: Needing some support and advice! (Read 108 times)

missorlando · « **on:** February 03, 2012, 07:58:57 PM »

Hello all,
Been a long time and a lot has changed, despite me using th loa to attact my ex back, we were together for a few months before i found out he had been cheating, and enough was enough, i was through with wanting to be with someone who wasnt fully committed.
It hurt, I cried but i got through it and changed my job to an amazing one which i love. Its in the town i live in and I am very passionate about it.
At the end of last year they told me however that the gallery i work in was closing and I would be moved to another one, almost an hour away.
That i would need to travel,t hey said if i was willing to do that they would fit the hours to be the same as i am doing now.
However, fast forward a few moths and the gallery is closing in 2 months.
They have put me on the most awful hours, working constantly and as my new partner only has weekends off and lives two hours away, it will leave no time at all for us to see each other as i am never allowed to have weekends off at all.
Im in a very difficult position as i love my job and what i do, i am good at it and the money is good, but if i never get to see my partner due to my job, it all seems a little worthless.
I have taken it as they arent really giving me any option to switch the hours around at all, they are totally set and wont budge.
I just dont know how to proceed and its really weighing me down and making me want to cry constantly as i can bear to not see my man

crazysoul · « **Reply #1 on:** February 03, 2012, 08:07:01 PM »

what about a new job, which you love and its near to you with loa?

missorlando · « **Reply #2 on:** February 03, 2012, 08:19:37 PM »

Id be really sad to leave my job as i have never loved a job as much as i love this one, i just feel like my employers arent treating me very well to be honest,
they made all these assurances and promises and have gone back on everything.
I feel taken advantage of.
Id like to stay in my job i think as there arent many other galleries in my area and so staying in this field would be tricky, I live in a very rural part of the uk

crazysoul · « **Reply #3 on:** February 03, 2012, 08:25:02 PM »

i see now.... not so easy. i love my job and even when they reduced my hours, i dont want to go, so i understand you.

is your partner able to move somehow?

and for your job, i mean you can just send an intent to the universe, for a (better) job, which you love more than the recent one and got treated well from your mated and stuff....near to your partner.

or send an intend to the universe, that you want to be able to see your partner more often and the universe will fix it.

hope that helps a bit?

schenderson22 · « **Reply #4 on:** February 04, 2012, 10:13:40 AM »

Missorlando, you have been around this place and LOA long enough to know that you can change your circumstances. You have just lost sight for a moment.

Where do we start? We start with a gratitude list. List ten things you are grateful for. At the end of that list add to it "I am grateful for my flexible hours at the gallery""I am grateful for my loving, close and healthy relationship with (insert your partners name)"

You can download Subliminal Blaster from cnet.com (it's free) and add your gratitude list to it. Make sure you include "I am grateful for my ability to let go"

You may also want to consider listening to

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d7dEkWvqrlA&list=FLnBDT1ODm-LCip0Iym6RogQ&index=9&feature=plpp_video

with headphones each night before bed.

Lots of love and the best of LOA to you!!