Need Inspiration and help

[hari_rooney]

Hello there.
This is Hari from India. I have read many posts on this forum and by reading different posts I couldn't stop myself from sharing my issues and getting help from people who have successfully used the law of attraction to achieve what they desired.

To start with,  for the past one year I have seen lot of positive things in my life. I have had a break up right after my college due to some stupid reason. I was completely shattered by it. People who are into astrology told me that it was good thing that happened as the person was not compatible to me and was bringing negative energy. I don't know whether that is true or not but I have moved on. After all this happened, I read THE SECRET and even watched the movie and have been following it ever since.

I am graduate in Engineering and I have always dreamt of working in an IT company. I even know the company that I want to work for and I have also visualized working there on my desk. I have even visited to the campus of the company to help me visualize. I write about the Job everyday. I have even dreamt about it while sleeping. The thing is I have applied there 3 times till now with a gap of six months before each application but every time my application is rejected. I don't know whats wrong.  Am I doing something wrong.. ? I don't know what to do now..? I really want that job badly.

Looking forward to your replies

Thanking you,
Hari

[angel_star]

Hey Hari! Do you feel and believe totally that you deserve that job? Do you think you have any negative beliefs regarding the job or yourself? Also, I feel that you are too attached to the job. Relax and have faith that you'll definitely get the job. Distract yourself with other enjoyable thoughts/actions and feel grateful for all the beautiful things in life. By doing so, you will be able to let go of resistance and get into alignment with your desire and the Universe. At that stage you'll be able to manifest whatever you desire

[hari_rooney]

Hey thanks for the reply... 
I do believe that I deserve that job.... I have really groomed myself for the job and know each and everything that it requires.. And about the negative beliefs... I feel negative about lot of things... Its like whenever I do something.. I get a negative thought about it. I am trying to fight this thing... I am loosing faith because its been a long time since I have seen anything positive... I don't know how to turn things positive... I try to distract my thought by continuously doing something I like... but still I don't see anything change...

 

[Queen Of Light]

Hi Hari. It seems you are very focused on this particular company which should work to your favor sooner or later. Have you tried contacting their Human Resources department by phone or email? That could always work. At least you can establish a rapport with them. If you've applied 3 times, they may recognize you from your name and realize how dedicated you are to working for them. That's always a good thing! Sometimes it also helps to know someone who already works in that company. They could refer you.

[Maverick]

Hey Hari !

I feel negative about lot of things... Its like whenever I do something.. I get a negative thought about it. I am trying to fight this thing... I am loosing faith because its been a long time since I have seen anything positive... I don't know how to turn things positive...

As already pointed out by Queen Of Light and angel_star, you are too much attached to "This Particular Job". If you do so, you ask universe to restrict your chances. Instead, what I'd recommend is, think of how your job should be without being specific about employer or job location. Be overly specific about the nature of the job.

I try to distract my thought by continuously doing something I like... but still I don't see anything change...

Exactly! As you have seen and read "The Secret" I'd remind you of a quote from it.

What you resist, persists

If you forcefully try to resist those thoughts, the more thoughts will emerge. When I find myself in such situation, what I do is like this.
When I realize that this is the negative thought, I let that thought come into my mind. When that thought is completely clear, I look at that thought as third person, laugh at it, and I say "So cute" and then again try do make myself busy in whatever I like. Imagine the situation you are playing with your little niece  and he says, I'll punch you in the face, and you say "So Cute" and resume playing .Most of the time I realize that most of my worries/fears (negative thoughts) are unrealistic. This technique I learned from NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) and you being an engineer, it will not be hard to learn programming .

The technique is like this.
Basic Principle - Human being tend to think that their own problems are the biggest problems in the world. But to them other people's problems are not that big.
How can we make use of this human psychology for good? Simple, look at your problems as third person and you minify the problem.
We are awesomely great when it comes to giving "free advice" why not give it to ourselves? lol

If you really want to avoid going into negative phase, try keeping yourself busy in something that you enjoy doing.

I feel negative about lot of things... Its like whenever I do something.. I get a negative thought about it. I am trying to fight this thing

It might be because you are not in good alignment and too much attached to the outcome. I can see that getting a job in that company is like "make or break" kinda of situation, which makes you to under perform. You worry too much about outcome and you your focus is not on what you want to achieve.

To understand alignment and detachment, go through following thread.
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/law-of-attraction-lounge-1/detachment-5595/

And about getting new job go through this thread
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/how-to-use-law-of-attraction-12/attracting-a-new-career/msg41416/?topicseen#new

Hope that helps

[hari_rooney]

Thanks a lot everyone, I will keep in mind everything is said but i just want to know what if I am looking for that particular employer and not a specific job role... ?

[Iamvibration]

Whatever thoughts, ideas, or situations that you most give attention to will eventually appear in your life. Whatever you feed your mind you will see in your outer world.  Check out my facebook fan page for inspiration.

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[billjonesplanet]

i hope you'll get the job soon, and let me remind you this

the law states:    you attract what you are vibrating,   if you feel good you're vibrating that way and attracting things that make you feel good and viceversa

so the main question is what are you vibrating?

#1 thing is to feel better than you're feeling now, your number one goal is to feel AS GOOD AS POSSIBLE, maybe you'll get even a better job , who knows, it all depends on HOW YOU FEEL EVERY MINUTE OF THE DAY&WHAT YOU ARE THINKING EVERY MINUTE OF THE DAY

#2 make a list of 30 things you can do now to feel better and just apply them

#3 watch every video you can find on youtube, read any material about the law of attraction, you will feel much better and your belief will rise

if interested here is some links
http://tinyurl.com/manifestamiracle21