What are the Steps to use Law of Attraction?

[RMcIntyre]

Fish2,

Rather than trying to visualize a specific person or face, try to focus on the emotion.  Imagine how it would make you feel having a partner with all of the qualities you've listed.  Experience the excitement, the joy, the comfort, the love, the fulfillment or any other emotions such a partner would invoke within you.  Feel it, as though it has already happened and do this as often as possible, several times a day if you can.  The more you do so, the more real it will be to your subconscious and the sooner it will become manifested in the physical realm.

S,

Positivity is great, keep up the good work!  Again, I would prefer to see you maintain focus on your ideal partner's qualities instead of focusing on a specific person.  In order to change your vibration to match theirs, you essentially would have to modify your thoughts and behaviours to more closely match theirs.  This involves trying to mold yourself to be more like them or to be more like they would want you to be, which is really not being true to yourself, nor is it the best way to build a lasting relationship.

By staying positive and focusing on the qualities you want in a partner, it's possible you may still attract that specific someone, or you may just end up attracting someone even better!

Be Happy & Be Blessed,

Ron

[S]

Hi ron! That was wonderful advice, it's made me feel positive and believe there is always a way! And that it's good to be open even if you want a specific person back

However, I think I may have come across a self-discovery...If you think about it, there once was a time when me and the specific guy I still love were in a vibrational match, we broke up because I got negative and hence, our vibrational match wasn't the same, it may have got out of balance...so,
A way of attracting aspecific person would be to remain positive, this should raise vibration.
Just think, when we were together, my vibration and outlook was positive and calm, which was why he was attracted to me.
So if I remain positive instead of negative then he will get attracted to me because I am sending him positivity and love through the energy connection that we still have! Plus, by being that positive, calm person again, he would receive that vibe...and perhaps want to contact me
What do you think of that? Would you agree? Is that the right way to think as well as being open-minded too?

Blessings! I await your reply!
S

[matthewferry]

The most important step:
awareness.. be aware of your thoughts, acknowledge its imperfections and that you often have thoughts entering that you will not agree on and not what you really desire. awareness opens up your mind to attract to what you really want...

great discussion!

[Sneha Kulkarni]

hi mathew

would like to know your suggestion on the question i had put up on this forum, this is the one.



Many ask me how to i attract a specific person because there are many who don't have a past relationship but they are in love with some acquittance or a friend  in their present life what would you advice them.

sneha

[RMcIntyre]

Hi S,

I whole-heartedly agree with that strategy, so long as you stay open to anything.  You can't go wrong with staying positive.  If you can do that, your life will continue to get better and better.

...and as Mathew says, try to be aware of your thoughts.  If you feel a negative thought coming into your mind, do whatever you can to replace it with a positive one.  Keep a success journal or a gratitude journal and refer to it whenever you need to boost your spirits.

You're on your way, S.  Keep up the good work!

Ron

[S]

thanks ron!
So I can attract the love of my life back using my strategy then?

Also what is the difference between law of attraction and astrology?

Blessings!
S

[RMcIntyre]

Hey S,

If you have a vibrational match, anything is possible, but remember to not be so focused on this one person that you close yourself off from other potentially amazing possibilities.

I don't really know much about astrology, so I can't really compare the two.  I don't know if there is any sort of scientific support for astrology, where as the LoA is supported by Quantum Physics.  The "What the Bleep..." movies are a great introduction to Quantum Physics, if you're interested?

The most basic explanation I can come up with for the LoA, is that you attract into your life what you think about.  Happy, positive thoughts attract positive experiences into your life.  Negative thoughts attract negative experiences.  This is why it is so crucial to maintain control of your thoughts.  Once you learn to do that, the possibilities are endless!

Cheers,

Ron
 

[S]

Ron, thanks,
wow! That was inspiring!

So can our vibrations match If I become positive and send happy thoughts to him through our energy connection?

I asked about the difference between law ofattraction and astrology because I came across the other day that the planet Saturn has been in my sign (Virgo) for the past 2 years and it said Saturn teaches us some tough lessons and may seperate us from who we love, inalso read somewhere that these changes are permanant. To be honest I have had a bad 2 years and Saturn leaves me alone oct 29th and is supposed to make us work hard for what we want during it's visit.

But I don't know if I agree because he had to breakup with because of strict family but got back with me within 2 months before and after Saturn entered my sign.
And also, the permanant changes may be getting rid of our old relationship so we can both have a new relationship with eachother  together, starting afresh and taking our love to a better, new direction...right?
But then how can Saturn dictate and control my life when law of attraction exists!


I look forward to your reply!

P.S. I know I shouldn't look at astrology and should not believe in it  and I won't again but I just had to get this off my chest as it has Been bothering me for days!
 


 

 

[RMcIntyre]

Hi S,

The only person that has any control over your life is you, not Saturn, not your family, not your friends, just you. This is very important and something you need to remember always!  They may have some influence on your life, but ONLY if you allow them to.  If Saturn, or another person seem to have an effect on your life, it is only because you allowed it.  It is your beliefs and your reactions to external objects that influence your life.  You are in complete control!

Just as no one else can control your vibrations, you cannot control anyone else's vibration either.  You may be able to influence them, but only if they allow you to.  Everyone is in control of their own vibration.  So, in answer to your first question, he may be able to sense your positive thoughts, but it will always be up to him set his own vibration.

You just need to focus on your own positive vibrations.  If you can do that, and if he doesn't come back into your life, someone better will!

All the Best,

Ron

[S]

Hi ron,
Thanks for that, yeah it definately makes sense what you say. I will write down what you suggested and stay open.
Although, he is pretty sensitive so he can feel feel my vibes very easily and he reacts to it too.
I feel we may be in the same vibration, I don't know but, a few days after my birthday he spoke to me and tried to arrange to meet up with me, although we didn't end up meeting up, everytime we manage to talk to eachother ( which currently  isn't often) we act like nothing bad ever happened and we talk to eachother happily...and start up our passion as if it's still there...

Surely that indicates I have a chance with him? What do you think?


I look forward to your reply!
 blessings!
S

[Chaz]

Here's online document containing the method of applying Law of Attraction. It's written based on the principles of the Creative Process. This book is written to give guidance to those that want to start applying the Law of Attraction and utilize the benefit of their mind power.

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[themoneypoems]

Will somone please list the ultimate steps to achieve anything you want with the law of attraction?

It may be helpful to understand how the Law of Attraction works. It will make all the different steps that have been offered clearer.

The law of attraction is the law that regulates supply in our physical world. Our supply is our good - i.e. whatever we want and need to live a happy, healthy, comfortable life. You get to name the supply that shows up in your life.

The law of attraction has two components: desire and expectation. Both are required for manifestation.

Desire is the motive power for calling your supply forth into visible appearance. It is no use to desire a thing unless you expect to get it, either in part or in full. Desire without expectation is idle wishing. You waste valuable energy when you desire without expectation.

Continuous expectation is necessary to bring what you want into reality in your life. You can think of expectation like gravity. It's a drawing force that acts in the invisible realm.

Never expect a thing you do not want, and never desire a thing you do not expect. When you expect something you do not want, you attract the undesirable, and when you desire a thing that is not expected, you simply waste your precious mental energy. On the other hand, when you constantly expect the thing that you persistently desire, your ability to attract becomes irresistible.

Desire connects you with what you want and expectation brings it into your life. This is the Law.

~ Summarized from Raymond Holliwell's "Working With the Law."

Prosperously yours,
Denise Allen
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[DittoEffect]

You must be able to communicate through your intention.

Ask
Believe
Receive

It can be easy to misunderstand this process since it seems so simple. Often people will just think over and over in their mind what they want and tell themselves they believe. You have to communicate through your intentions, really see what you are asking for as a possibility and see in your mind the event taking place and know that it will.