I am stuck.... guide me

[kins 9]

hiii guys !!

i hope you all are doing fine...
I have been applying secret to shift into new apartment...
its been 9 months now , the rates are increasing .....

i feel very low .... i wanto change things but i am stuck
i really need to get into new apartment......

i have tried affirmations and visualization....but nw i have given up
i wanted in a particular area but things are not working out....

can you please suggest me something coz m stuck and m attracting negative situations ......

i dont feel good about the place m living... no doubt the place is fine but
the energies around me make me feel dead... i dont feel alive... i dont feel excited about anything.... even my mom feels the same.

day after tomorrow is my birthday and i feel nothing at all... no shopping nothing .......
i dont feel like celebrating....

i dont know whtr you are able 2 understand what iam feeling...
is there any other way of applying LOA ......??

thanks!
have a gr8 day

[kitten]

hi there!

I have heard that one of the key things about manifasting is to be grateful for what you already have! and then u will get better. by you focusing on the place u are at now you will keep getting more of that...i.e stay there for longer. why dont u try to start seeing the positive aspects of where u are and appreciate it and thank the universe that you have a roof over your head when there are homeless people out there....show gratitude for everything you have and be happy, this will lift your vibration so high and you will start attracting more of what you really want which is the new place....also by focusing on a certain area y are limiting, maybe focus on saying i want a better place in a place similar to that one, maybe when you write your list of what you want list things like a safe neigbourhood, with lots of trees and friendly people just as the one you want...who knows u may get a place where u want or a better place. I sense doubt in your post! you are focusing on rates going up and u are getting more of that! i would say relax and focus on what you want suitable rates and a nice place....dont forget to be grateful and happy with what you have already

good luck

[kins 9]

THANKS for replyn KITTEN   

ya i m  gr8ful for all good things .....

maybe i shuld jus relax for sometime......

[Era]

Hi there sweetie, Remember that what you think of most of the time, the universe places   into your reality. That is why a peaceful, thankful, and joyful   personality is very important in order for one to live an abundant,   prosperous, and peaceful life.

Sweetie, We as humans respond to different situations according to our emotions.   If we feel that we should be upset about not having something we really   we want, we do get upset. If we feel that we should be happy about   having the things that we want, we do feel happy. Emotions are what make us   human. They are a part of our daily lives.

However, our lives must not be dictated by negative feelings. They   must be avoided at all costs in order for the universe to support us in   our every endeavor. You are the master of your own destiny therefore you   must have a very strong control over your emotions. It’s okay to have   them, but don’t let them have you.
Your thoughts have to be in line with your emotions. When you think   of your desire, you must make sure that you feel good and that you   believe that you can achieve it.
Feel good. And when you are feeling good, feel better. Make that   positive ball of energy grow and grow until no negative emotion can ever   affect you. Once you have achieved that level, manifesting your desires   using the Law of Attraction can be as easy as tying your shoes.

[kins 9]

Sweetie, We as humans respond to different situations according to our emotions.   If we feel that we should be upset about not having something we really   we want, we do get upset. If we feel that we should be happy about   having the things that we want, we do feel happy. Emotions are what make us   human. They are a part of our daily lives.

However, our lives must not be dictated by negative feelings. They   must be avoided at all costs in order for the universe to support us in   our every endeavor. You are the master of your own destiny therefore you   must have a very strong control over your emotions. It’s okay to have   them, but don’t let them have you.

ya i agree era.......
i need to control my emotions bcoz they are driving me crazy
i feel like " what if nothing happens" ...
from now onwards i am goin to practise meditation....
and control my thoughts and redirect them
thanks for your reply.....
it means alot!

love to you  

[ladyrisq]

Why dont you try something small like changing furniture around, seriously it really works in lifting your vibrations towards your house. Or add a few throws over chairs just to change the colour scheme (dont have to be expensive or even new) Change the mood with candles or soft bulbs in lamps or soft orange bulbs in bedside lamps like i have gives a feeling of warmth to a room. Or if you are thinking of moving soon have a good sort out because moving can be a stressfull time and having a clear out can make things more smooth, will declutter your house so make you feel more uplifted (even the tidiest of houses have hidden clutter of things we dont want or have now become old and not useful) - A decluttered house declutters out minds. Look at all the good things about your house or if you cant- start by thinking of all the good things outside like i appreciate living near my family or good friends, or i am close to work, or this is a good street or i am close to local transport. Then start by looking inside at what is NOT wrong like i dont have damp patches, my boiler works good and dont give me problems or i love the furniture i have, later liking your house will come. And after that attracting a new house will be more easy !   Good luck and always stay positive.

[schenderson22]

Remember:  This is a process and everything happens for a reason.  Everyone here has some really good points.  Below is some additional information you may find useful.

Everything we see around us is nothing but energy and everything vibrates at a certain frequency. Frequency is everything. All frequencies co-exist to make up the entire Universe.

Everything that happens in your life happens for a reason & you & only you are responsible for all of it. You attract that which you believe to be true irrespective of whether it is true or not. You attract people, events & circumstances in your life by your very own thoughts & beliefs.

Every true belief is not just conscious but subconscious and is tied to emotion. A belief is an emotionalized thought. If you closely observe, you will always find that, every human thought & action is either based in ‘love’ or ‘fear’. You either do something for the love of it or for the fear of something happening if it’s not done. Sometimes the emotion of love maybe equated with greed & this maybe more so applicable in the stock market where the only two emotions that prevail are greed & fear – Greed of making more money & the fear of losing money.

Instead of telling GOD how big your FEARS are, start telling your FEARS, how big your GOD is.

Whenever you are faced with a challenge, every choice that you make arises out of one of the only 2 possible emotions that exist – the emotion of love or the emotion of fear.

Love & Fear are 2 of the most POWERFUL EMOTIONS you will ever come across. Love is the MAGIC POTION & Fear is the VENOMOUS POTION!!!

“Fear is the energy which contracts, closes down, draws in, runs, hides, hoards, harms. Love is the energy which expands, opens up, sends out, stays, reveals, shares, heals. Fear wraps our bodies in clothing, love allows us to stand naked. Fear clings to and clutches all that we have, love gives all that we have away. Fear holds close, love holds dear. Fear grasps, love lets go. Fear rankles, love soothes. Fear attacks, love amends.” – Neale Donald Walsch

Learn to recognize & hear that little voice in you. It’s this little voice through which the universe speaks to you. It is your emotional guidance system & acts as radar (GPS) that helps you to steer away from all the hurdles of life.

The sole purpose for which you came on Earth was to experience life in all its glory. If you aren’t experiencing this fullest glory yet, it only means that you are still to accomplish your mission here. And when you experience this glory, you will realize that this mission cannot end as only then, you will truly know the eternal nature of your BEING.

You will realize that the real does not die & the unreal never lived. Once you know that death happens to the body & not to you, you just watch your body fall off like a discarded garment!!! The real ‘YOU’ is eternal & timeless & is beyond birth & death. The body will only survive as long as it is needed. It is not important that it should live long.

page 1). Part 1 http://www.suite101.com/article.cfm/new_thought_science_mind/61308

page 2). Part 2 http://www.suite101.com/article.cfm/new_thought_science_mind/62100

Lots of love!!

[loveofabundance]

I'm writing this while sitting in my new apartment, on the block I love, in the neighbourhood I love, in the town I love, near my amazing job and and my wonderful school, and I have my favorite landlord.
So, I'm going to try to explain exactly what steps have lead me to this moment.  I first of all, decided that I was ready to move.  I started making lists of what apartments would be acceptable to me and I started looking at them.  I couldn't help but compare them to my old apartment, town and landlord.  And I kept looking.
Even before I started looking, I would visit my old neighborhood just to enjoy its welcoming energy.  There are adorable woods near my house and when I was still living out of town I would visit and enjoy them.  I just kept continuously keeping a flow of loving energy circulating between myself and my favorite area and one day I saw a for rent sign in front of the apartment that I wanted to live in.
I used to visualize myself living in this very apartment.  I imagined how I might decorate it.  I didn't visualize with the expectation or even desire of living here.  I simply let my mind wander to what it would be like, found it pleasant, and that was it.  I didn't even have to let go because I wasn't holding on to it in the first place.  And then one day, it just happened!
I guess what makes me a successful manifestor is that I find contenment in simply imagining situations and that's enough to kickstart creation.
Thank you kinS for the wonderful thread!
Maybe the reason why you didn't get your dream place right away is because it will be coming a little later.  I had imagined moving in here seven months ago, so sometimes it just takes time.  I once "didn't" get a job I purposefully manifested only to get the very same job two months later!  So, I think if you want someting you'll get it.
Just keep being happy and enjoying yourself.  You are creating your perfect apartment now!

[Vicki Christina]

What a great post, Love!   Reminds me of the Hicks video I watched today...  You said it in just a few sentences!!!   
I used to visualize myself living in this very apartment.  I imagined how I might decorate it.  I didn't visualize with the expectation or even desire of living here.  I simply let my mind wander to what it would be like, found it pleasant, and that was it.  I didn't even have to let go because I wasn't holding on to it in the first place.  And then one day, it just happened!
I guess what makes me a successful manifestor is that I find contenment in simply imagining situations and that's enough to kickstart creation

[attractingabundancetips]

I agree to what kitten has mentioned.

Being grateful will shift certainly shift your energy towards positive outcomes which match what you desire. I think you're aware that whatever you desire have to match with a corresponding feelings. Being grateful is thus a great, positive feeling that matches how you feel when you've been blessed with a "miracle" that you've asked for.

There's also another issue here about the timing to receive what you want. You can't really force the universe to give you something at a certain time. It may take a longer time than expected but you'll get it. It's only when you bear that disappointed feelings when you don't receive it that you've indirectly signaled to the universe that you've given up and indirectly tell the universe that you will not receive what you want.

[kins 9]

THANK YOU GUYS FOR GUIDING ME : )

@adyrisq i cleared my house as you said "A decluttered house declutters out minds."
it really helped thank you

to schenderson22 thanks for the wonderful  post  it really explains us the power of love . first i used to crib about the place where i am living... which gave me more of that.
then i came across a book called  " THE POWER"

In last 1 year i have checked more than 30 apartments ....din like any. rates were high and i felt helpless... i dint know what exactly i should do.
but i guess i was forcing loa to work ....i was too attached and my vibration was low with lot of anger and frustration...
the attitude was " running away from this apartment"

than as you all members taught me to be grateful for whatever i have , show gratitude......... this changed my negative vibration to positive


than i came across a very beautiful place and area with lots of trees.
as i had read the power i put so much love to that bldg......
i said " i would love to have an apartment here and it would be so nice to live here ".........
than i got caught up with studies and work..... the part of let go
after two months i got a call that there are flats available in that area  ( in reasonable rates)
i was so much in love with that particular area.........
i prayed to god and thanked to give me this new apartment....

and now we going to shift into our new lovely apartment in next month!!!
i am so happy and so grateful for this new apartment...
yes it took time but it happened!!!

we have meeting next week regarding the rate and i am so excited and i am so sure n believe that MY WORK IS DONE.... 


so i want to thank you all for guiding me

[loveofabundance]

That's wonderful news KinS!!!  See...you knew what you were doing all along!

[angel_star]

Congratulations Kins! So happy for you

[kins 9]

all thanks to you guys!!