How do I stop from attracting negative thoughts?

[Buddha]

Ok guys, I am usually totally in control of everything I think and experience, but I humbly ask for some help on this one subject.  In the case of my #1 worst fear, which I won't even mention for the sake of giving it less power, I sometimes find it creeping into my thoughts.  Despite my best efforts, I can't always counter it with a positive thought, and I find that when I'm in this 'negative workshop', it is considerably more difficult to focus on and attract the things that I DO want.  The last 2-3 days since I first thought about it I have been noticing that it has been coming up in conversations, on TV, in movies and such, so I know I have been attracting it.
Now, this is my number one worst fear...I'm talking horrific, and I really DO NOT want this to occur in my experience, but smaller versions of it have recently been showing up even more consistently than the things I DO want to attract.

Can someone give me something I can use to fix this problem?
It really is never too late to change your point of attraction right?

Even in meditation, this thought has been poisoning my peace of mind.
I really don't understand why this even came into my thoughts, and now that its there...it just wont leave.  Please leave me alone, scary thought!!!

[Giggles]

Yeah I have the same problem, everything WAS ok, really great but I just had thouse bad thoughts... and it all comes to me now... I really need methids how to stop that thoughts..

[Buddha]

Hey Giggles, may I ask what kind of negative thoughts you have been thinking?  Nothing too serious I hope!

[Giggles]

its about my relation with my love...
we arent couple now, but we was (and we will!)
but i just am thinking sometimes that ... when we will be marry or sth - he will start to be untfaithful to me... and i have our divorce in front of my eyes also
And I also cant stop being obsessed, when he isnt answering me or sth, I always am thinking that he has doubts that he was when we break up again...
Even I have those thoughts that sth will gonna go wrong, when its good.
I start getting back him, everything was ok, he was really nice to me, and I have those thought that at another day he's gonna have his doubts, and it will be bad... and actually it WAS because of my thoughts
And I cant , just simple really CANT stop those thoughts...
even during meditation they come to me...

[Buddha]

OK, so I posted on YOUR thread, but I didn't have all the details yet, and so...nevermind my post there.  So, you are divorced?  Or you are in the process? 

Now I can relate to this, you see, my girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me a couple of months ago.  I was totally devastated for a short while, but I managed to deal with it very well.  In the end, I realized that I was better off without her.  In fact, now that I look back on our relationship, I can see that i was only upset about the breakup because i lost the sense of comfort and security that she gave me.  We really didn't have anything in common, and we were always upsetting each other in one way or another.  Now I'm single, and I can do WHATEVER the F**K I want, without worrying if she will approve!  So really, I am grateful that she dumped me, because now I am free to attract someone who I am truly compatible with.  The feeling of freedom is unmatched!

So, what I'm asking you to consider is, WHY did you guys break up in the first place?  DO you really want HIM back, or do you just want the sense of security back.  I'm not trying to burst your bubble or kill your hope.  But I'm suggesting that you take a good, long look at your relationship and truly ask yourself:  IS THIS RIGHT FOR ME, OR DO I WANT SOMETHING EVEN BETTER.

The fact that you broke up once means that there was something wrong in the first place, and unless both of you are willing to fix whatever that was, then it will just keep making problems for you.  If you still want him back after considering that point, then you truly love him and you should go for it.
Just always remember that no matter what happens, you CAN have a relationship with someone who is absolutely perfect for you, all you have to do is ASK.

[Giggles]

I was trying to have other relationship - and i didnt feel comfortable in them...
I am not divorced or sth - me and him was just boyfriend and girlfriend We were 3 years together.
And I told You about divorce and sth like that because I have thoughts like that during meditation. When I see us together again, and then I see him propose to me, and then our marriage - Im so sure it will be ! And then those BAD thoughts appear - like divorce and being unfaithful... Do You understand now ?

Your post is very wise, but yes considering all points I want him back !
I want him back because I consider all my relationship, and I know I love him, and he still loves me, and I am so happy when he is around. It just makes me feel so great ! I just love him extremely.
Also I know what mistakes I did - and I dont wanna do them again...

Also Im glad You find Yourself during Your broke up
May I ask You whats Your bat thoughts?

[Buddha]

You know what?  I was afraid to say my fear because I didn't want to give it more attracting power, but the fact that I was able to make you feel better raised my vibration to a point of Good karma, so I no longer feel fear and i am no longer attracting my fear.  Thank you so much for giving me the opportunity to get out of that negative workshop!

I will tell you my fear, but I warn you this is my absolute #1 fear of all time, and it's very disturbing!

Ever since I was very young i have been afraid of fire, particularly dying or being badly burned, and although I rarely think about things like that...the last couple of days it has been popping up in my thoughts and I don't know why...and then yesterday (through the obvious attraction of it) my friend kept talking about it, and strangely enough we watched a couple of movies and TV shows where people ended up being burned alive...what the hell?

Like, seriously this is my worst fear.  The very last thing I would ever want to attract into my life...and my absolute terror is very bad because extreme emotion can cause quick manifestations in your life.  And also, since I've been thinking negative thoughts, its been much harder to think and create the things that I really DO want(and normally I'm very good at that).

On the bright side, I was trying to attract a way to stop attracting this..and it worked!  Because making YOU feel better made ME feel better!  I think you saved me from a terrible fate.  Instead of attracting my fear, now I'm attracting the ability to help others.  And that is something that I love!

Thank you SO MUCH for letting me help you!!

[Giggles]

Im happy that I could also help You
And I have the same bad thoughts , about writting down my fear, but actually it helped me, to get to know my fear better.
Now I know what I should do.

I am glad You could felt better because of writting about Your fear. Now You can focus as You can see, on visualisation of You faithing with fire, and maybe about water, or sth that beats fire.
I hope I helped

[Buddha]

You certainly did.  I feel much better, and I know that I'm sending out a more positive vibration now, so I have nothing to fear.

Thanks alot!  I hope everything works out for you!

[Giggles]

Youre really welcome!
I am so happy You feel better.
Peace and Love :*