Great! a little advice is all i want

[Avenger]

Hi and thank you for having a place like this.

read a bit of posts made hear by members and i'm very happy with what i have read so far...I want stuf in my life, and in thread it said not to list the things i Do not want, but to list the things i do want..

I resigned my job as an IT lecturer on last February 2010 (i loved it so much), and i have been invited back in, so I'm joining work from 1st of may 2010.
I have a slim body and want to become muscular and fit
I'm applying for my degree this month and i want to buy a bike so badly..
and a lot more on the list..

please advice me on how to focus on these things, as i see it most of this depends on money, so is it Okey to focus on money? or should i have the original goals in my mind?

[David V.]

Do you know to draw?

An idea would be drawing a muscular and fit you riding the bike you want.

If I were you, I would wish for the things I want, and the money just in case I want more. But do not stress yourself about HOW will you get the money.

[Avenger]

Yes David V, i can draw...once you said me this, i came to know that i don't fully know the parts of a bike... and I'm going to study my dream bike and am going to draw it! it seems simple...

and yes all i have is good feelings flowing within me right now... trying to stay calm and keep these positive feelings on..

[Galia]

Hello Avenger!

Read this one: http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/law-of-attraction-in-action/how-to-apply-the-law-of-attraction-consciously/

When you want things you should focus on the end result, not on the means. For exemple about your bike- the Universe can take different ways to bring it to you - as a gift from somebody or a price from some game you participated in etc etc...so focus on the things you want.

You can make your vision board:  http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/vision-board/vision-board-mini-series-what-is-a-vision-board/

http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/experts/vision-board-mini-series-step-2-getting-your-images/

Put a deadline and take action!

Action is very important. If you want a nice body -then go to gym, make some exercices, find forums or internet sites where you can be adviced about this from other people that already achieved this goal.

If ever negative thoughts come, see this:  http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/thoughts/how-to-get-over-negative-thoughts/

Any other queries, we're here to help!

Love and light to you...

[Avenger]

Thanks a lot Galina...

Step 1, I'm creating my own vision wallpaper..right now..and practice all the stuff as much as i can...Feeling happy and strong...

Thanks to you all....

[Avenger]

wall paper created.. and i have a time frame..
june 30th 2010 is the day to get my bike.. i don't have money for it, and am always having the feeling i have the bike..but sometimes My feelings start to doubt on my aim..

is the day too close? or should i continue this? any advice would be great!

[Andrew Wilkie]

Avenger,

Mind your doubts and focus -

i don't have money for it, is the day too close?

If the date doesn't work for you, no worries. That is a massive learning. What is the end result? The bike or the day that it arrives.

Keep vision the end result, you on your bike, in the bike shop - or what ever is your end result?

If your out and about on your bike. Can you walk a 'bike route'.  You could have a massive 'live' vision session.

Do you have room for your bike - i.e. where are you going to put it?  Clear some space for it.

If you want help with resolving your doubts, beliefs about getting your bike -  Learn and apply EFT
        What is EFT - How to Do EFT

Have you written out your ideal biking day?

[Avenger]

thanks andrew,
I'm trying the live vision thing... reading the EFT

cheers!

[expandingbeings.com]

Nothing wrong with focusing on money, however sometimes the Universe can bring you what you want in many more ways. An example is my spouse and I for the longest time had a very small, fuzzy tv in our living room. we wanted a bigger nicer tv very badly. (especially me!)

I would go to best buy and look at their big tv's imagining that it was in my house and i could watch it whenever i wanted.  I definately did not have the money to buy one, but knew anything was possible.

a few months later, a co-worker of my spouses told her they were getting a new flat screen tv and needed to get rid of their old one.

they gave us a huge sony trinitron tv in perfect working condition for free! it was so big it didnt fit in our entertainment center!  it was a couple years old, but looked great. the price online for that model was over $600.00.  and we got it without spending a penny.

just visualize what you would like, let the universe take care of how it will come to you.  If I can do it, you can do it!

[lovely]

expandingbeings.com, your experience is really nice..thanks for sharing....it seems everything is possible wid faith....its grt....

 And Avenger,best of luck to u..u will get d bike u want so badly....through LOA

                                                                   Lovely

[Galia]

Great success story!

Just wanted to add mine when comes to home appliences - I wanted a freezer really badly. Same story - didnt have 500 euros to afford it.

One of my friends 2 weeks later said she ordered a new freezer and wanted to give away her old one...she gave it to me for free! So I asked and the Universe supplied...simple!

Ask and it's given!

[Ginny]

Put a deadline and take action!

Action is very important. If you want a nice body -then go to gym, make some exercices, find forums or internet sites where you can be adviced about this from other people that already achieved this goal.

I'm very interested in this - and wonder, how do you know when to get the balance right between taking action, and not pushing things too hard. It seems that particularly where human relationships are concerned, Less action is often better than more. And yet, sometimes making the first move or putting yourself in the position to get what you want works. So how do you know what to do when?

As a couple of examples: many years ago, I was promised a promotion at work. I'd really really wanted it, and was delighted when it was offered. But then some other people in the company got jealous, so my boss wanted to move more slowly than originally promised. I didn't understand why the promised promotion should be delayed, so pushed for it - and the whole thing blew up in my face.

More recently though, I've had a relationship issue, and I haven't been able to stop myself from meddling, even though my gut tells me that this is the wrong thing to do. However, every time I meddle, I try to mentally take a step back and focus on the outcome I want, rather than worrying about any mistakes I've made - and the outcome always seems to be that the meddling has turned out to be either a good thing to have done (in terms of improving the relationship), or at least hasn't made anything any worse. Now I'm wondering if I should keep 'meddling' in this situation, as it seems to be having a positive outcome, or whether I should take a step back and see if things get EVEN BETTER if I can control this unfortunate urge to keep checking on the situation (my worry, and the reason I can't just let it lie, is that I'm afraid that the other person might think that I don't care if I don't keep checking up. Half of me thinks that, and the other half thinks that people need space and not to be checked up on every 5 minutes, even if it's just to show that you care)

What do you think?

[Galia]

Hello Ginny.

Taking action is also a matter of common sens, question of remaining reasonable and within people's limits. You have to respect people's space, mind and body, people's decisions,  that's all.

When you want something to happen you need to take action, but not to abuse or to push too much. It's really a matter of common sens. 

If you go and check out permanently on your girlfriend/boyfriend this shows your insecurities, jealousy and personal fears. In the begining it may be funny for your partner but believe me it won't take long to be pissed off being checked all the time...

Cheers!