For those of you who gave up on getting their love back

[JustForToday]

my angels for today:

Friendship within a relationship is of the utmost importance.
Nurture the friendship and watch the bonds of love grow stronger

  TRUE!!!

[simplyjess]

my angels for today:

Friendship within a relationship is of the utmost importance.
Nurture the friendship and watch the bonds of love grow stronger

  TRUE!!!

Love it; it really shifts my way of thinking and energy. Thanks for sharing! =)

[def]

I dont know whether I have given up on my love or whether I have just completely moved on. I feel a huge shift in my own energy. I am complete, whole, happy and I just don't care so I tested myself today. I had a look at his girlfriends profile which is a photo of him and her about to kiss. No pounding heart, No jealousy, No feeling at all and I don't feel as if I ever have to worry again. All I have been thinking about is how I am truly blessed. I am healthy, I have so many people I love, I have made so many new friends. I am abundance and I wish everyone else so much love. Thank you guys.

[JustForToday]

hi def,

that is do great to hear and you are so strong--- i am happy for you!

THIS IS THE PLACE WHERE ALL OF US WANT TO BE!!!

keep going and many good things are waiting for you---- thank you for shaing this

Melanie

[animor]

Good progress def!

I am really confused regarding where I am now. A few days ago I didn't care at all, I don't even bother to check his profile in general, I never asked about him people that see him every day. I move on with my life. I have stopped my LOA stuff that had to do with him and my focus is on a loving relationship in general. That could be giving up.

But the last days I feel happy for some reason, because I believe that he is coming back (no evidence for that, it's like he is not on this planet any more). It's not actually believing, it's more like knowing, and I wonder why. I don't think about him and it doesn't affect my life but I am not sure I want this feeling, I can't see any good at it. I think I'd prefer to give up than feeling good and excited.

[Love4only1]

I've 'given up' but I wil always love him.  I also know that if he called me this moment I wouldnt hesitate to talk to him, I'm a sucker like that.   
And maybe this isnt the thread to post this on, but I noticed something that kind of shifted my thoughts of him, curious what you all think.

My love and I got together (to catch up) after a 20 year separation, he found me on Facebook.  (not that I was lost, I had been stalking him on FB for a year or two  )  Anyway, one day when we were talking he said that he had gotten an email saying that someone was looking for him, or checking him out and he was thinking it was me.  I laughed and told him I didnt know his email address, but he continued that he clicked on it because he was curious to see who it was...but alas, it was a scam (duh!).  He has talked a bit about girls from his past who have contacted him, and 1 or 2 that freaked him out a little because they would constantly text or message him on FB.  I told him that I wont do that, but if he ever thought I was becoming a stalker, to let me know.  He said 'no, because the feeling was mutual"  (Which was nice to hear...I'm getting the feeling he is a master player) The other day, I was on FB and I noticed that he started using an app that could tell him who views his profile.  I know that those things dont work, but it made me wonder why he was so interested in who was looking for him all the time.  Did he hope it was me, (somethings telling me No) or is he just so full of himself/insecure whatever, that he is still looking for something. 
What shifted in me was this belief that he felt the way I do, would I really want to be attached to someone who is still looking for something else to make him happy?  The answer is, well, No.