Attracting him back?

[Lovingself]

Hi I really need advice, tips anything please.

I meet this guy and went out with him for a couple of months and everything was so perfect, I could see he was falling in love with me and I felt the same but we were both scared and I think those insecurities made the relationship unstable so it kinda went downhill and he told me we should be friends and all that...Problem is he let his fear take over because he has such a strong mind.
I really feel like we are meant to be and I want him back and I am sure I will get him back.
I need advice on how to do this....and a couple of questions

-How often should I visualize us together and in love?
-I know I'm supposed to feel as though we are still together, right?
-Is it ok to think of him at times as if I am in love with him?
-Can I ask the universe to bring him back in specific time frame?
-What kind of affirmations should I do?? How often? Cause Ive heard that doing them too much can make it sound as if you dont have it.
-What other things can i do? Have pictures of him? etc? to make me feel as though hes still my boyfriend?


I also read love poems, quotes and picture him but its like hes constantly in my mind, is this bad?
This is soo hard cause my mind and heart start aching when i kinda let my negative and pain take over me :s

hELP!
I want him back so muuuch

[Andrew Wilkie]

You can attract him back if you want to.

You should visualise your end result.  You visualise as often as you need to. Twice a day is good. If you're visualising more. Ask yourself why?  Is it because you don't think you can get him back? You need to get over your own fears.

LOA will not fix the reasons why you broke, you. You'll need to resolve them too.

You can ask for a 'time frame'. Yet, if you're constantly checking your calendar...drop it. You don't believe it will happen and are blocking your own success.

Affirmations are great, as long as you say them and your mind doesn't come back and say B.S. The B.S. is what you're really thinking.

Other things, vision board, ideal day script. Plan what you will do together when you're in a relationship. Get out of the house.