Attract friendship

[Ana]

Hello everybody,

i'm new to this forum and also to the LOA. I've been attracting very small things but that give me a lot of hope 

But i have a question and i hope you can help me with it. I've never been a very social person, always had friends and went out to the movies, dinners, parties, etc, but i've always had this group of 10 people who are my only friends. And i've never had a real close best friend, my friends are awesome, we are close, and i love them to death. But never had a real bff.

Anyway, i've meet this girl who is like my dream friend. I've never really talked to her because i'm so shy and we are actually NOW living in different countries, but she's everything i've imagined my perfect best friend would be. I'm not even obsessed, but instead so excited everytime i think (imagine) me and her being bff's and talking, laughing, going out partying, etc.

I wanted to ask you guys, (by experience) if is it possible to attract a friendship with a specific person? Or at least attract a conversation with that person?

Thank you

[Berylac]

Hi,

Let's see what you got here:

i'm new to this forum and also to the LOA. I've been attracting very small things but that give me a lot of hope

No worries! It's very good to attract small things because that helps to build your confidence and motivation in believing the law of Attraction. It's pretty good, like what you said: "give me a lot of hope.". Indeed.

But i have a question and i hope you can help me with it. I've never been a very social person, always had friends and went out to the movies, dinners, parties, etc, but i've always had this group of 10 people who are my only friends. And i've never had a real close best friend, my friends are awesome, we are close, and i love them to death. But never had a real bff.

Well, it's okay mate. At least you have 10 friends going out and have movies, dinners and parties together. I didn't even have friends to join me all these except talking about school stuff and games. In addition, I only have close friends like 6 of them and we hardly communicate once we get ourselves out from our school. Everyone of them is busying with their own stuff.

Anyway, i've meet this girl who is like my dream friend. I've never really talked to her because i'm so shy and we are actually NOW living in different countries, but she's everything i've imagined my perfect best friend would be. I'm not even obsessed, but instead so excited everytime i think (imagine) me and her being bff's and talking, laughing, going out partying, etc.

This may be the easiest task for you and the Universe to be manifested. Just chat with her on Facebook or MSN. I would not recommend you to use complex Law of Attraction's Teachings to attract this situation to your reality. This is what you should do. You have to know that Friendship is being created due to mutual ideas and interests.


1. Catch her interests. For example, if she loves to listen to musics' band similar to you, just chat with her with this opening: Hey! I have seen your profile and you do really like (band name) a lot. Do you have all their songs/musics? Something like that. Work with interests and create that rapport.


2. Of course, you would not want to chat with her every time and talk about the same thing over and over again. When you have a conversation with her regarding on her interests, find others that could impress her. Maybe she has more than one interest and you can relay with it, so that you don't have to use the topic of 'Favorite Music Band' every time you want to talk to her.


3. Slowly, by creating more and more, engaging more and more conversations. This will increase your motivation and thus the rapport must be created between you and her.

I wanted to ask you guys, (by experience) if is it possible to attract a friendship with a specific person? Or at least attract a conversation with that person?

Absolutely! Friendship can be made easily. Trust me! Everyone can become your friends by chatting with them and not exceed more than one minute's conversation. =)


Hope this helps,


Regards,
Berylac