asotrab's advice thread

[iloverainbows]

This is a thread for asotrab. Asotrab I hope it's OK for me to post here...I didn't want to clutter up the chat too much 

Guys, here's the chat log (newest message first)

• asotrab: no being selected hahaha
  Today at 10:43:00
• asotrab: hi iloverainbows!! well i like to think that and and try to think in that way but sometimes i'm afraid to being selected... but what i have sure is that i wanna be part of that program (sorry for my inglish i'm spanish lol) thanks for answer me. what do you advice me?
  Today at 10:42:38
• iloverainbows: Hey astrotab! Do you feel like you could pretend to yourself that you already have it and feel those feelings?
  Today at 10:30:11
• asotrab: Hi evryone! i need help! I already made an addition for a talent show. I sang two songs but one of those i did it well but in one part of the song i wasn't goo... I have to wait two or three weeks for a phone call to tell me if i passed the audition. How can I use the law of the attraction for make my dream come true!! please help. I truly need be part of that program. I know it's my life

Asotrab (I just love your name!), here's my advice...

You obviously really really want this which is great, but it feels like you're holding a lot of fear feelings around it. You said yourself you're scared of not being selected. A good thing would be to find an easier way to feel about this audition, so there's not such much resistant thought around it.

So, for instance you could maybe shift the feelings to...

'I know I'll get on this course, or one like it, some way because I'm a great actor!'
'If I don't get on this course, it's only because that's making way for something better to come to me'
'I know only great things happen to me, however it looks on the surface the universe is always re-arranging things so I get the best!'
'I love acting and I draw all the great acting opportunities to me'

Do you see how these statements feel different to the kind of white-knuckle fear of 'I MUST get on this course, and I'm scared that I won't!'

The difference is where the feelings come from. With the statements above, you're coming from a place of trust, safety...you trust that things will work out for you, in fact you KNOW things will work out for you. Yes, you can go on the course if you want...and there are a multitude of other options for you, and only great things coming your way.

When you think of the course, try some of those statements, or any others that feel good to you. Any statement that comes from a feeling of trust, ease, relaxed curious unfolding is great. This relaxes your feelings around the course and opens you up to all the amazing ways things can happen for you. The point of going on the course is how great it will feel, yes? Whether that's feeling great doing it or for the  opportunities it gives you or both. Well, the universe KNOWS the shortest, quickest, easiest route to you feeling happier and getting more of what you want. So

, cause everything's great...



So now you're feeling kinda better about this whole thing (after talking with yourself differently, gently about it for a few days, but you start feeling better even after the first time), remember to also focus on the other things in your life that match the way you want to feel all the time. Anything which you feel grateful for, easy about, safe with, lucky, happy...anything past, present or future which you find it oh-so-easy to feel GOOD about...focus mainly on that. Milk those good feelings, indulge in them. They'll make feeling GOOD about your course, which you're going on, easier and easier. Focus on the good feelings and gradually bring the feelings about the course into alignment with those more good feelings...

And then it gets easier and easier to feel good about the course...

At some point you'll be full of hope for the course...keep going and hope can turn to belief, which will quite quickly turn to KNOWING...and at that point you've got it

See...it's just a matter of easing yourself into feeling good...using what you've already got...you can do it, take it easy and everything is OK, you'll see  Love from iloverainbows.

[asotrab]

Thank you so much for your support!! I'm going to make sure that this advices are very present in my life. I know that all my dreams will come true just if i believe in me. Now, I know that i choose who I want to be and how i wanna it to do.. so thanks for your  time dedicated to me. I'll make you know when I received that phone call best whises from Spain.

[iloverainbows]

You're welcome! Best wishes from Australia!!!

[Maverick]

@asotrab!
All the best to you. Meanwhile till your results are out. Sit down, relax, breath deep. Once you will start feeling relaxed, see yourself doing the things that you will be doing after getting selected (celebrating, informing your loved ones and all) in your mind's eye. Try to generate the feeling of being selected.
If you don't know how to generate these feeling; remember the last time you felt really good about something and try to associate that feeling with the feeling of being selected. This will help you a lot too
Also follow the advice of iloverainbows. She's framed it really well.

@iloverainbows : Good job! I specifically liked your idea of adding pictures in the post. This way posts look friendlier. I'm stealing your idea