Dave7
If you want to read the secret do so. It has got so many others interested in LOA that's great. Although for me it does simplify all the steps. If emphasises more than others. i.e. The
work step is only given a page in the entire book.
There is no must read book or game plan. Many of us read, watch listen to as much information as possible. Why? We still have answers, haven't got something that we want, our goals have increased. We're still taking wrong turns, have our own self doubts and fears. Wanting validation
Keep reading, watching etc, until it all falls into place for you. Once you do, you'll see there are many common themes etc.
You listen but you do not hear, you have eyes but do not see. "
do the people who give advice here have most of the things they desire in life?" - This is the best question. Read my post on
Beware of Gurus. Most advice take advice from broke people DON'T. In several posts, I've said take what I say with a pinch of salt. You are your own best guide. If something works for you great, if it doesn't stop it and do something different. You do that anyway if your goals are big enough and important enough to you.
When you reach a goal. Growth is only natural. I'm working on much bigger goals now than I did 5 years ago. Once you start getting your goals, you'll begin aiming much higher than you ever thought possible.
Happiness is the ultimate life goal.
All goals depend on why you want them. For exs it is mostly about the feelings that you had with that person not the person themselves.
Instead of visualizing having alot of money you could just say be happy about where you are and not worry about it. -
The end focus here is worry, not about being happy.
The more specific you are in all your goals the better. So yes:
1.Be with kelly
2.Make a million dollars...
3.find happines w myself/
4.feel comfortable with my financial situation
I'd say this.
Find happines w myself/
Feel comfortable with my financial situation
These are what I call "umbrella" goals. They are big and very often a moving target and on a sliding scale. How will you know when you have reached them.
1.Be with kelly
2.Make a million dollars... These are specific goals that give you or can make up your umbrella goals. Umbrellas have many spokes. There are many ways to reach and what can make up your goal.
What would each look like, feel like, sound like. SPECIFICS
Relationships - what if you want someone you've never met? This is the best goal possible. My girlfriend is 'so far' off the radar from say 5 years ago. It's unbelievable. Even I'd have said never. Yet here I am.
Trust me, 12 years ago. I was in a relationship and I like many thought the world had ended. It hadn't obviously.
Write down what is important to you in a relationship.
Write down why it's important. Notice your if, buts, shoulds, woulds, could. Turn them into something positive. Then leave the actual 'face' up to the universe.
Any I don't want, change.
By the way would you rather make or have a million dollars? I'm a sickle for language. Just ask Tele.
May 05, 2011, 02:57:57 PM
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