Does anyone agree with this article? I dont agree with everything but I do agree with most of it specifically you cant make people do things and you cant make people love you. I want to believe you can attract a specific person. I dont have any desire to be with an ex but certainly ive had crushes that even today would not mind a shot with but Im hesitant to put effort into that because I just dont see how loa can work on someone else's will when its suppose to be about you not someone else.
If the person your trying to attract has totally different desires, how would your own will override what they are wanting to attract (whether they are attracting subconsciously or consciously since the law works either way)? I have attracted crossing paths with a crush. I said Universe/God please let me see him today and immediately upon walking outside, he was walking towards me but attracting contact is the most I could do since I have no power over his feelings. He either likes me or he doesnt. My understanding on how it works is you have to be a vibrational match to what you want and how can you change someone else's vibration? Also if your trying to be a match to someone specific instead of being at a higher vibration for you (and as a result attracting similar energies from whomever they come from), doesnt it become about something outside of you? You know what I mean? Im not trying to discourage anyone here. Im just truly trying to understand how can you attract a specific person if they have desires that may not include you?
When I hear stories of couples getting back together with one person using the loa to attract them back, I believe the other person probably still wanted them all along or at least still an attachment there from both people not just one. It takes two to tango. Its not a topic I think about normally but cant help it when I come here since so many are wanting to attract someone specific or an ex so it always makes me wonder. I definitely think someone can attract a meeting or contact with an ex, cross paths which hopefully gives them a chance for reconcilliation if both parties want that but when I hear people affirming so and so loves me and what not, how can their intentions be stronger than what someone else wants for themselves or feels deep inside?
I mean we all know members of the opposite sex whom we'd never be with no matter what they tried to do to attract us. I try to put myself in the other position to see if it would really work. If any of my ex's tried to use the loa to attract me back, theres absolutely no way it would work. May work to cross paths again or contact but a reconcilliation, no way because what i want for myself doesnt include them and im very strong on that. Ive heard more stories of people attracting someone else while trying to attract their ex's back then ones who actually attracted their ex's back. Again not wanting to discourage, that wasnt the intention for this post and like I said I absolutely do think you can attract contact and as a result chances for reconcilliation but to attract them to feel a certain way and change their will for what they want?