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« on: February 05, 2010, 05:04:15 PM »

Hello all!

I´m new here. I´ve known about the LOA for about a year now, and I´ve been using it since, but I might not be using it well because I don´t seem to attract what I want. My main problem is relationships, at first everyone seems to like me, but in the end (sometimes even in the beginning) everyone distances from me. It´s like if they were running away from me. Right now I have just 2 friends which I don´t see much. I´m finding very difficult to find new friends despite I´m a nice person. I´m really desperate, this has been going on for almost 4 years, I´ve even started to think I´m cursed! If anyone know what could be happening to me and could help me I would really appreciate it. I really need to change this situation...
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« Reply #1 on: February 06, 2010, 01:05:01 PM »

Hello? No one can help me? Sad
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« Reply #2 on: February 06, 2010, 09:46:19 PM »

Dear Lara,

First things first, i Apologize, It seems we missed your post somewhere and did not reply you. My bad.  Undecided

Thank you to see someone looking for a Friend than an Ex this time.  Wink

Making a Friend is indeed an art (i meant a Good friend), at the same time, its indeed no Rocket Science.

You did not make any friend, is no Way a Curse. Its too too extreme to think. I have number of friends which i can not even handle, does it mean am Overly Blessed? Huh

To be honest with you, do not worry of how to make of Win a friend (You need not be a "Friend P leaser"), Worry rather for what is he Purpose of Life?
what you want to achieve?
what if your Passion?
What makes you the happiest moments of your life?


Honestly speaking, the moment you find the answers of the above few questions, Friends, Money and abundance will come along. Its so Natural.


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« Reply #3 on: February 06, 2010, 11:15:11 PM »

Making new friends at an adult age is different from making friends as a child... because of the usual view on life most adults have. I dont know how old you are, but i assume you'd be above 16...
I think you may have been doing one thing incorrectly.. you were too uptight, too scared to lose friends, too scare to somehow push them away from you, that you kept thinking "i dont wanna lose this friend... i'm scared they stop liking me..." what you were actually doing, was sending vibes to the universe about LOSING friends... so the universe gave you what you, albeit inadvertently, asked for.

But chin up, YOU can change things around. Instead of focusing and stressing about finding good friends, try clearing your mind of worries and think about what makes you feel good. Remeber times when you were happy and be happy for it. Start doing something that you always wanted to do, or that you used to do, but stopped. SPorts? social groups? choir? cooking groups? woodworking groups, walking groups, start a new course in school, university, technical school whatever. If i didn't mention something you'd wanna do, YOU know best what it is... go for it... Dont just do it thinking "Now i HAVE to find a friend" no, just enjoy yourself and send good vibes and you will attract likeminded people. You will be friends with someone not because you WANT to be friends, but because you will resonate in similar frequencies...

I have been lucky to always have good friends, but i never tried to BECOME a friend with someone just for the sake of it... it happens naturally, when you relax and when you send positive signals out there...

hope this helps...
let us know how you're progressing!
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